Yesterday, I picked up R at the closest subway station (or light rail, I’m not sure which) and we set off for a day of city luxuries. It turned out to be a day of very minor city luxuries because we are too cheap for much in the way of city fun. We tried to go to Mission Impossible and it was $26 per ticket. $26! Thank you, but I’ll wait until it hits some television-type format.
But I’d picked out a restaurant for lunch that sounded like a bistro-type pub — interesting food, claiming to have gluten-free options. We got there and it turned out to be more like a combination sports bar/Applebee’s, with the only gluten-free items on the menu being pad thai or potato skins. We decided to pass and left.
I was frustrated, because we’d both spent quite a while browsing various review apps on our phones, trying to find the perfect place, but there was a Vietnamese restaurant in the same strip mall-type place, so we decided to go there.
Spontaneously.
Without reading any reviews.
Without consulting TripAdvisor or Yelp or even Google.
And it was delicious! I had mango salad and shrimp summer rolls and R had pho. I took one bite of his pho before he added hoisin sauce (which has gluten, so is not an option for me) and it was so delicious that I ordered myself a pho to go. I ate it for dinner last night and lunch today and it was so good that I’m now feeling in ridiculous harmony with the world. Good soup, that’s all one needs to cheer one up.
I liked the restaurant so much that I went to TripAdvisor to leave a review for it and… it doesn’t exist! Or at least not in Trip Advisor. But for anyone wandering around Toronto, it was called Good Pho You, and that’s the right address and the right menu, even if the name on the website is Mr. Ping’s Noodles. And it was very good for me, several times. If it rains tomorrow, I might have to go back there.
Why is rain connected to dinner, you wonder? Because R and his girlfriend are coming over. I’m planning on making chicken piccata, gluten-free, which is a food I don’t make when I’m on my own, because it requires wine and I need someone else around to drink up the wine. But dinner in the van for more than two people only works when it’s really dinner outside at a picnic table. Still, if my chicken piccata plan fails, we will have Vietnamese and I, at least, will be content.
In even more positive news, albeit already mentioned, R and his girlfriend are coming over for dinner tomorrow. I haven’t met her yet, but I’m looking forward to it. R paid her a compliment that I am not allowed to repeat (not because it’s overly personal, but because he feels it might stress her out to have to live up to said compliment), but it makes me highly inclined to think I’m going to like her a lot. I’d probably think that anyway, though, because R is so happy about their relationship. I told him that while I refuse to take on his unhappiness as my own, his happiness boosts mine by about 20%. So happiness boosted and I’m looking forward to tomorrow.
In additional positive news, Zelda is doing great. She’s not limping anymore, even on long walks. And we’ve run into some other dogs on our walks and she’s been perfectly pleasant to them. I was worried that she might adopt an “attack first” attitude, but a lifetime of good dog encounters has not been jeopardized by the one Very Bad Encounter. At least not for her. I’m working on my own anxiety around the issue.
The only continuing problem for her is that after hurting herself when jumping off the bed a few times in the first days after the VBE, she’s decided against doing that anymore. I’m hoping she’ll get over it eventually, but right now, she jumps up on the bed and then gets trapped there until I realize she’s standing, staring at the ground, and help her down.
And another positive — I’ve made a decision about what I’m doing next! I’ve really been debating about what to do, where to go. I know I write better and more when I sit still. The past two weeks have been terrible writing weeks, because I’ve done so much driving. But what’s the point of living in a van if it doesn’t include some adventuring? If I’m just living in a tiny space, I could do that much more comfortably in one that had a permanent connection to hot water.
Anyway, I was debating between heading west and going along the north side of the Great Lakes all the way to Winnipeg, then south through North Dakota in order to see North Dakota (#49 on my list of states); or heading west to Michigan and visiting the upper peninsula, as missed earlier in the summer; or heading south through New York, over to New Hampshire and Massachusetts and then continuing south.
I decided to do none of the above.
If you were to take a list of the top 50 things to see in the US, I would have seen most of them. Not all of them. I’ve never been to Yellowstone, Glacier, Carlsbad Caverns or Denali. I’ve not watched Old Faithful or visited Craters of the Moon. And there are definitely places I’d like to spend more time, like the Great Smoky Mountains and the entire state of New Mexico. But the places that I actually want to see? Not just “will go see, because hey, why not?” but “want to see”? There are not so many of them left. In fact, when I — in exasperation with myself — meditated on that question only one popped into my head.
Prince Edward Island.
Which, conveniently enough, is actually in the same country that I’m currently in! Not exactly close to where I currently am, but close is relative, right?
So I’m heading to Prince Edward Island, hoping to find places to stay along the way that don’t involve too many parking lots. This last week of summer is a terrible time to find campgrounds and places are mostly booked. And I don’t want to brave PEI until after Labor Day if I can manage it, since this is peak tourist season. But Labor Day is only two weeks away. On Wednesday, I’ll head to a campground in Quebec for the weekend, and then after that… well, I’ll play it by ear, I guess. But I’m excited! Anne of Green Gables country! And the ocean! And then south through Maine and maybe even some New Hampshire autumn foliage.
Life is good.
Tracie Lynne Hall said:
Holy cow, that web looks humongous! Shades of Harry Potter! How exciting you get to meet R’s girlfriend for the first time!!!
I was just thinking of PEI this morning. I was reading an Emily Post Etiquette book (yes, I do pick some strange reading materials occasionally) about Bed and Breakfasts which reminded me that one of Mom’s very best friends from College (Ginny Hall) had a Bed and Breakfast there that I never did get to visit. Like my Mom, I imagine Ginny, is no longer with us. (grammar?) So alas, I fear I missed my chance. Her son’s name, whom I’ve never met, was Phillip. *He’s* probably still with us, but I don’t know if he inherited the place. None of that helps you in deciding where to stay, since you’re not looking for a B&B anyway–just tossing it out there. 🙂
I once read that when training dogs, it takes three times of the same bad results to train them to stop an unwanted behavior, so I’m thinking poor Z may have it ingrained now that that particular jump will always be painful. You may have to wait until you are absolutely positive it won’t cause her any kind of pain before you try to entice her to jump with something super delightfully tasty. And then who knows if she’ll need three good experiences until she’s completely convinced.
Happy travels.
wyndes said:
I’m actually never going to entice her to jump off, LOL! Eventually she will get annoyed at my obliviousness and rescue herself. She’s a really smart dog, so I wouldn’t be surprised if she figures out that her dog bed in the aisle is a softer spot to land, but she’s also a highly stoic dog — she never whimpered when she was hurt, not once — and so I would never trust that she wasn’t hurting herself to please me if I tried to treat her into jumping. Also, she’s the least food-driven dog that has ever existed and there is no food that will make her do something that she doesn’t want to do. She’d do it to please me, though, if she thought I wanted her to, and I don’t want that. She’ll figure it out. Or not. My other dog, Bartleby, who died in February, couldn’t get on or off the bed by himself and he was quite good at conveying his wishes to me. Yep, the dogs are the bosses – I’m just the helpful cook/chauffeur! It’s too bad about your mom’s friend on PEI, though — it would be a beautiful place to know some locals, I bet!
Tracie Lynne Hall said:
That makes perfect sense.
Ahh yes, the handsome black and tan long-haired Chihuahua. Yep, Simba (B’s look-alike) was Queen of the household here–quite the vocalizer when she wanted something. 🙂
wyndes said:
Actually, I decided I was being silly. I would never limit my kid’s freedom like that, I would encourage him to try and be supportive, but I wouldn’t let him live in fear of pain. Why should I do that to the dog? So today I put her dog bed on the floor at the end of the bed, where she usually jumps, and tried to entice her down and she jumped right down on it. A few more days with the cushion there and I bet she’ll forget all about it ever hurting her.
Mireille Duval said:
Hey! I’m in Quebec! You’re welcome to my driveway if you want to! I’ll be home (currently in Montreal!) from August 27th. I know we don’t know each other, but isn’t that what the internet is for? 😉 Feel free to send an email if you’re interested!
wyndes said:
Emailed! (And I’m excited!)
tehachap said:
Oh, but YES!! Anne of Green Gables and the countryside is gorgeous. My eldest sister and her husband went there a number of years ago. I was a bit green at hearing her talk about it. They’re both gone, but hearing about PEI makes me think of them both. Hugs… and please do write and take lots of pictures!
wyndes said:
I will! Lots and lots of pictures!! I actually found a campground for the holiday weekend there, one that sounds nice and remote, so I should be there by the end of next week! After I visit Mireille. 🙂
tehachap said:
Awesome! Have fun!