The first people to look at my house made an offer.
I accepted.
And then their financing fell through.
It was what you might call a whirlwind of emotions. I’m not fussing about it, but it inspired me to live in my house very mindfully this weekend, enjoying the pool, appreciating the lanai*, and taking full advantage of the laundry room.
I’ve determined that I’m going to leave this house with all quilts and blankets as clean as possible: I’m not thinking about the fact that an RV doesn’t have a ton of room for blankets and so I should be probably be deciding which ones need to get donated. I own a lot of quilts. Maybe I’ll do a post of quilt pictures and let you help me decide? But mostly my choices will be between presentable vs extraordinarily well-worn and ragged, but incredibly nostalgic. For example, I own a quilt my mom made with her grandma for her wedding. It’s purple and red, ripped along one side, very lightweight, and more than fifty years old. Put that up against the perfectly serviceable blue and green quilt I picked up at Bed, Bath & Beyond a few years ago and there’s a practical decision and the decision that I will undoubtedly make. But I sort of suspect that I’ll be keeping all the quilts when I leave and making the hard decisions only when I am forced to it by the lack of space in my future new home.
And who knows when that will be? After my first showing turned into my first offer, I thought this process would be quick, but no one else has even looked at the place yet, so maybe not so much. That’s probably fortunate because I have a lot to do before I leave. (Ahem, like, write a book? Yeah, that.) I’m not stressing, though. A time for everything and everything in its time. And now it’s time to write!
*Lanai: So it turns out, in Florida, there are specific terms for those outside spaces adjacent to one’s house. They’re not all just patios. My outside space has no walls but is covered, so apparently it’s a lanai. If it weren’t covered but was paved, it would be a patio. If it was made of wood, not covered, it would be a deck. If it… well, follow the link on the term to read all the variations. But I may have to go through all my Tassamara books looking at the porches. Apparently the Southerners might have called them verandas. I figure I’m fine in Akira’s point-of-view, because she — like me — probably had no idea of these fine distinctions, but I suspect Natalya should have. Not that I’m going to make any changes, it would just be interesting to know where I got it wrong.
Marian said:
Get a Space Bag and keep all of them.
sarahwynde said:
Good attitude! I’ll have to see how many I can fit into one of those bags. I have a box of them (the bags) and I’ve used them with clothes, but even though you can cram a lot into one, they do still take up space. I think I’ve probably got an easy dozen quilts and let’s face it, that’s sort of more than one person needs. Thanks for the suggestion, though! I’ll definitely give it a try.
Judy Judy Judy said:
I love following your thought processes. I would have a hard time giving up a quilt my mom and grandma had made.
Happy writing today.
sarahwynde said:
Thanks! And yeah, those quilts are probably coming with me, even though they are ragged and worn.
tehachap said:
Your 50 year old quilt can be repaired. Quilts that are purchased at BB&B were most likely production quilts made in a foreign country–nice for keeping warm, but not heirloom quality. I would strongly consider keeping any handmade quilts, especially ones made by family members. Years from now, you’ll wish you had it/them to pass on to other family members — even if you never marry or have children, there are no doubt other family members who would appreciate receiving something made by an ancestor. As for verandas vs. porches, yep — verandas are definitely from the South and they typically would wrap around the front and sides of the house. Some had portions screened in for those summer nights when the mosquitos were biting. A porch is just that — typically covered and it would possibly be big enough for a chair or two — or not. My parents had a patio (concrete with a redwood cover) and a lanai that had raised gardens in the left and right corners. Lots of plants with huge Staghorn plants hanging on the walls. Nice…
tehachap said:
p.s. Sorry your first buyer’s offer fell through — hang in there, there’ll be a buyer!
sarahwynde said:
Yep, someone will love my house as much as I do! I can wait to find them. And I’ll have to show you the quilts when I come to visit — they’re pretty ragged!